People are drawn to those who have great self-worth & want to employ or work for those who have it. People who complain that the world is unfair or unjust because others are given so much while they’re getting so little, create the situation themselves and only they can change it. The world is fair, you receive what you give. If you’re not receiving in abundance, try doing what those who receive so much are doing.

The master knows and applies the art of linking someone else’s values to his or her own & can communicate in anyone’s ideals. Discerning people’s values (and yours) is easy. Ask yourself with what do they fill their space, time, energy? What they spend their money on? Where they're most organized & disciplined? What do they think, talk & visualize most? What do they speak about, react to and what are their goals?

Fear is a future imagined emotion. It results from imbalanced or lopsided perceptions, an assumed loss more than gain or pain more than pleasure. Energetically it initiates a sympathetic catabolic physiology and oxidizes, dries, and ages the physical body. To dissolve fear, ask yourself how if the event you fear occurred would it be a benefit to you and how if it doesn't occur would that then be a drawback to you.


A person of self-mastery must embrace both sides, both positive and negative feedback. We must embrace the vision we hold, knowing there will be people who like and people who dislike that vision. It has been said that if you are not being crucified, you are not on purpose. As you work towards your vision, you will have challenges. That is what will make you stronger.

Clarify your mission. Identify it visually until you “see” it! Say it to yourself until you “hear” it. Hold it as a thought. Hold it as a feeling. Endure both positive and negative feedback. Your mastery of life will endure. Our life’s mastery is really our mental mastery. And our mental mastery is simply the willingness to embrace all aspects of our life and never lose our vision and focus.


 One way to know when your values are not linked to each other’s are when you encounter one-sided conversations, or alternating monologues, when a person speaking about what’s meaningful to him or her, while the other’s mind wandering away to his or her own concerns. Either link your values, shift the conversation, or move on, because monologues are almost a sure stop for disappointing or dissatisfying relationships.


Any area of your life that you don’t have a high value on you will perceive yourself to be disempowered in. Any area you are disempowered in will attract someone to overpower you in that area - they get to set the rules. This may cause you a discomfort which you will perceive as a void and hence begin the journey of empowering yourself in that area.